[Rezzy7]

Originally Posted by Guru1984

Do what you want to do and say what you want to say! Sounds easy? Well, most people actually aren't doing that.

I think I don't know what my choices are. Meaning, other than talking of weather and her ex. For situations I'm rarely in sometimes I need examples, and that gives me ideas of what I want.

Or would you say okay, have a nice time and walk away.

I wouldn't want to stick around, but if it's a date I'd maybe wind things up, not just walk away like that.

Originally Posted by VinceG

Gently.

The grabbing or the tounguing?
If you can just walk up to someone and do that, good on ya. For me, there's probably talking involved, and all I really know is it can't be uh, sterile.

It's always better to make it physical by doing something physical.

I agree, but do you do that without talking? Not at a club, at like, Starbucks?

Nothing's more tacky than the guy who talks his way out of bed with women.

Nothing? Really? I know what you mean, though. That goes back to the threads about asking permission before a kiss, or whatnot.