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Angela · 08-04-2007, 03:15 PM

I think you need a new starting point:

Only the one who is feeling the pain and anger can choose to let it go and be free.

You are perfect, whole and complete -- there is no hole in you. You don't need anyone to give you closure -- which is a good thing, because nobody owes you closure.

Whatever you want him to give you: give that to yourself! And give it to others, as well. Thinking about what you can provide to others will help you to see how big, beautiful and valuable you are and will take the edge out of your obsession with what you think you must, but will never, get from Mr. NP.

best wishes.

08-04-2007, 03:15 PM	#2 (permalink)
Angela Legendary Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 11,404	I think you need a new starting point: Only the one who is feeling the pain and anger can choose to let it go and be free. You are perfect, whole and complete -- there is no hole in you. You don't need anyone to give you closure -- which is a good thing, because nobody owes you closure. Whatever you want him to give you: give that to yourself! And give it to others, as well. Thinking about what you can provide to others will help you to see how big, beautiful and valuable you are and will take the edge out of your obsession with what you think you must, but will never, get from Mr. NP. best wishes.