Digging deeper, the root of this problem is this kind of thinking: "I am perfect, people should follow my way because my way is the perfect way."
Since you are perfect, you are not the problem; other people are the problem because they are not as perfect as you! You desire for other people to be as "perfect" as you are.
Originally Posted by Matthew 7:5
You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye.
Once you realize your own imperfections, you automatically stop condemning others' imperfections.
What a relief to find out that we are all imperfect!
Less condemning and more acceptance.