Originally Posted by lycan
Sure. Can you tell me exactly what you tried so I have some reference from which to work with?
That is the reason people don't believe they can change, because they are constantly told it is their "identity", that it's just "who they really are" and to try to be some other way is a type of "faking". Because people believe making the choice to be gay is bad, the way around that was to say it is not a choice. Since society has decided it's not a choice, people's perception of reality conforms to it.
I'm still waiting for you to provide any evidence to back up your claims.