Originally Posted by Cochonette
What on earth? Of all the habits you would have told her to change, you chose the absolute most difficult and possibly impossible one?
It is not the most difficult habit to change, and it is not impossible. Unless you go at it from guilt. If you think you have to change to please others, you'll resent it and sabotage yourself.
That's your political agenda, nothing more.
I don't have a political agenda. If I read a post about how gays have it easy and how difficult it is to be straight, I would reply the same way.