Originally Posted by lycan
You are not gay. If you don't like it, you can choose to be straight/bisexual instead. You can feel lust, and you can feel romantic love towards men, if you decide it is something you are willing to do. I know society has conditioned you to think otherwise. This is politics, people finding ways around the repulsion most people feel toward homosexuality by making it seem that it is something people are victimized by, something outside their control, so that people feel guilty and ashamed of judging others for it. But it's time we grow up. Homosexuality is a habit of thought. So is heterosexuality. So is bestiality. So is pedophilia. They are habits formed by the interplay of your conscious choices, the reflexes of your body and your environment (past and current). If homosexuality is causing you pain instead of joy, choose a different habit.
What on earth? Of all the habits you would have told her to change, you chose the absolute most difficult and possibly impossible one? That's your political agenda, nothing more.