Mod note: split thread from Why is it only getting harder?
Originally Posted by lycan
You are not gay. If you don't like it, you can choose to be straight/bisexual instead. You can feel lust, and you can feel romantic love towards men, if you decide it is something you are willing to do.
This is probably true. I've often felt that way about my heterosexuality. I think if I really cared to, I could learn how to feel lust for men. I just don't care to. No reason to think it can't work the same the other way around.