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Originally Posted by JimOfferman  Hey Scott,
Great write up! I'm in the "don't have a relationship, but want one"-category myself, but I am definitely not seeking a relationship to fix myself. I'm not broken. Well, apart from the fact that I seem to be inadvertently attracting people who need fixing lately - need to work on that.
I like how you said that relationships are about doing not having. Reflecting on my existing relationships, there is definitely truth in those words. For example, my band are like family to me, but that relationship exist only because of what we do together (make music).
My desire for a romantic relationship is also based on the need to do the things you do in a romantic relationship. I don't need a trophy girlfriend to impress my buddies...
Jim. |
I'm also feel the same but won't go out with someone just for the sake of it.
OK the other week I had a bit of fun and noticed that I wanted more but didn't think it was possisble as he needed fixing and I didn't want a victim to rescue anymore. However I know someone that could give me what I want but I don't know if I want it from him.
I do feel sooooo alone it's a joke but I'm making the effort, without being desperate.