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Originally Posted by {aspiring_to_clarity}  I think the main point is that emotional pain/continued grief over the past is unnecessary and hinders the moment we are living in as we speak. |
The point was
never how you experienced emotional/physical pain of the past and you should get over it. The point was and is 'the past exists and there are continuous reminders of it in the
present'! Why is everyone going on about you don't have to dwell on it? This was
never the issue. What I had issue with was that the past is a fantasy. I tried to point out that it is
not.