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Old 08-03-2007, 03:54 AM   #1 (permalink)
blueflame
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Default Finding Purpose Through Animals

So..this might sound kind of silly, but getting my latest dog has really turned my life around. I adopted a beagle puppy two years ago with my sister. As she grew, I realized she was manifesting dangerous characteristics such as aggression and dominance. Everytime anyone said "no" she would bite us, and if anyone touched her toys she would let into them. She even attacked our 15year old dog just for walking by. I have many scars from the bites she would give me. Then my family members started raving about The Dog Whisperer, and I got into reading his books and watching his show. He says that the owner's state of mind (fear, insecurity, aggression)is easily picked up by the dog and is reflected back. It is so true! I didn't realize how unbalanced I was until this little puppy came into my life. She's gotten me to walk, rollerblade, or run everyday. Because she relies on me, and I knew I would be the only one to fix her- I worked hard on balancing myself out so that I could be a stronger leader for her. I also learned to discipline myself so that I could teach her, and to refuse to give myself permission to fear. Without her, I don't think I would have ever gotten this far, because I had no purpose. It really is true when they say animals are the greatest teachers. Anyone else found purpose in an animal? I would love to hear your story!
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