After reading all the reactions to my post, I feel that maybe some of you misinterpreted the meaning of my words. Let me more clearly explain what I meant.
-I never meant that his fiancee is not capable of love. Everyone is capable, but from the description that was given, it appears that she is not very kind to him and not expressing "healthy love"
-Micheal Chui, I don't think I quite understood what you meant when you said persisting was the fantasy that kept people moving from lover to lover. Could you please clarify?
I can also speak from personal experience, that converting anger and negative emotion to physical activity, even a martial art such as Aikido can be very damaging. Anger is a powerful emotion and can push people to stretch themselves past their limits. If you should choose to try this, be careful.
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