This is my biggest write up so far, and I think very useful and informative, if I do say so myself :P
So, here it is to read, and if you like, submit to SU, reddit, digg, or any other traffic generating site... there are links at the bottom of the article to do so.
Learn To See Your Own Rose-Colored Glasses
PS - I know a few of you have already read parts of it and commented... thank you for your feedback!