Originally Posted by danas
You nailed it. Thats exactly how it was and Im sure thats what he felt.
Yes I shouldve said hello when I saw him in the corner of my eye. And I almost surprised myself when I didnt. But I just didnt feel like after all those texts. He often gives me a guilt trip, or just has something critical to say, and I just could not handle it that night. I could not handle him bringing me down bc he thought that I was immoral for not coming to the party with him. I didnt invite him to that party. I would not have if I had the choice.
I will miss him. And thats why I called left him a voicemail and texted and I writing here. because I do care. but I dont feel like going beyond that now.
I know him well enough and it feels like he is trying to punish me. And I wont take that. Its immature. And yes, from all the friends I have, I do feel like he takes the most energy
I can understand how you felt that night. Sometimes, enough is enough and you get so tired of dealing with a person and his/her drama that you don't want to face it and let that person ruin your evening. I think having tried to contact him, you have 'reached out' and done all that you can.