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Old 08-13-2011, 04:37 PM   #7 (permalink)
ButterflyWoman
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Was my behavior too mean?
No. He's a grown man, and he could obviously get to the party on his own, and you had other priorities (like getting ready and getting out the door).

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Do I keep calling, send him a mail or let this friendship go?
I'm betting that if you stop calling and texting him, he'll eventually contact you, like nothing ever happened. That's pretty typical passive-aggressive behaviour.

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Im leaning towards the latter now
In this case, it sounds like he's already made up his mind about it. If he's serious, then you haven't got much choice, and all you can do is respect his wishes and end the friendship. If he's just playing some passive-aggressive drama game with you, well, in my book, that's enough reason to end it, anyway. Take him at his word and stop contacting him. If he doesn't really mean it, well, maybe next time he'll think twice about throwing a tantrum.

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