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Old 08-13-2011, 04:04 PM   #5 (permalink)
danas
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Originally Posted by OptimistPrime View Post
If you feel like letting go of the friendship but are worried/fearful about doing so, I'd recommend letting go of the friendship.
Thanks, Its not that Im worried. I just thought Id ask for an objective opinion about the situation. Like what you would do if you were me.

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Originally Posted by Clint Cora View Post
You have to determine what's acceptable and what's not in terms of friendship. If I was in your position, I would say that this guy is one of those 'toxic' people and would let the friendship go or at the very least, not spend a lot of time or energy on that one (sort of downgrade to acquiantance level).
Thanks for your thoughts. I needed to hear that

As I wrote in another thread, Ive been taking care of me nowadays. And maybe he is no longer aligned with the part of me that takes care of my own needs. So this is why he no longer answers my calls, no longer part of my reality.
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