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DoggyLady · 08-13-2011, 01:34 AM

i'm thinking of letting go one friend as well.

i feel no value added when we meet up. he spends a lot of time grousing about things.e.g. how the government sucks, how rich people take poor people's money, etc. basically a "the world is unjust" actittude. i sense a lot of bitterness about life.

he is generous and funny otherwise.

i guess, i want a more quality relationship.

i'm also wondering how to let the friendship go.. do i stop accepting his invitations to gatherings? or do i have to say it out to him "hey, buddy, i don't want to see u anymore."

08-13-2011, 01:34 AM	#3 (permalink)
DoggyLady Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 196	i'm thinking of letting go one friend as well. i feel no value added when we meet up. he spends a lot of time grousing about things.e.g. how the government sucks, how rich people take poor people's money, etc. basically a "the world is unjust" actittude. i sense a lot of bitterness about life. he is generous and funny otherwise. i guess, i want a more quality relationship. i'm also wondering how to let the friendship go.. do i stop accepting his invitations to gatherings? or do i have to say it out to him "hey, buddy, i don't want to see u anymore."