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Originally Posted by blueflame  That someone could really love you and treat you kindly, unlike your fiancee. |
Everyone in the world is capable of loving and being kind to everyone else. However,
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Originally Posted by blueflame Maybe part of this, is that you don't respect yourself as much as you should? |
This gets in the way. In all my years, I have come to the conclusion that all relationship problems are problems on part of the individuals involved. Relationships are easy; people are hard.
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Originally Posted by blueflame I truly you hope you find someone who can give you the love you need and more. Persist, and it'll all work out.  |
And this is the fantasy that keeps people from fixing themselves while moving from lover to lover.
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Originally Posted by toasterwater I want to be content without anybody's love. If i can do that, then I wont have to feel this depression/anger all the time. |
Use your depression and anger as fuel. Convert it into something positive. Do something physically challenging. Learn Aikido or Karate; you're in the perfect place to do so. Take jogs, lift weights, anything. Study harder. Focus better.