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Old 08-02-2007, 09:14 AM   #2 (permalink)
JimOfferman
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I feel your pain dude!

Answer me this: if an awesome girl springs up out of nowhere and wants to go out with you, don't you think that would be because she might think that you are, I dunno, interesting?

Seriously, stop beating yourself down like this... you have friends... having friends tends to mean that they find you interesting (why be friends with someone who bores the hell out of you?)

The only person standing in your way now is you... you need to find out what makes you think that you are boring. I bet that it will turn out to be some nonsensical fear.

Make a list of all the things that you consider to be either interesting or boring about yourself. Be honest to yourself and you'll probably find that the interesting list is longer and the boring list is stuff you don't care about anyway.

Good luck,
Jim.
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