Erin, your search was so similar to mine, so I must say to everybody: Listen to her! It works!
The list came to me by accident, while writing a journal entry. I started naming the things I would cherish about a man. It took me to get to end of that list to realize I already know and love him!
p.s. You were in my dream last night. We went out! Had a great time! Oh, and I haven't returned you mascara...maybe tonight