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Originally Posted by Max0r  Hey, can you tell me more about this? |
Sure, I meant that during the act you split yourself for a passive and active part. The passive part is focused on fantasy and receiving pleasure and active part is ekhm, creating/giving pleasure. Without this splitting masturbation would be very boring. Of course people differ in their fantasies and their intensity, sometimes more conscious is this active part (in more mechanical masturbation), but IMHO splitting always occurs. And you can see the danger in this splitting - for a while you become disconnected from the world as a source of pleasure and have an illusion of being utterly independent (=separated)
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Originally Posted by Max0r For me it seems to be based on lust, although I have to say... there is a major disconnect between the desire which leads to a masturbatory orgasm and actual sexual desire for a woman, even if the masturbation was to a woman. |
not only lust is a cause of masturbation. You can do it out of anxiety, depression, anger. Even out of sense of guilt.
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Originally Posted by Max0r Notice how this thread has actually resulted in a ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ of mental masturbation? It's like we're shootin' our wads over the internet. |
I hope that we are not spunking our keyboards yet (for me it's even impossible) but I meant that issue is to stop for a while because it's obvious for anyone that everybody is doing it all the time. That's what I called "decadence" - the connection is rare and considered as an option which demands a great self-sacrifice.