The big problem with right now is that most people don't like the
now they've created. People look at their lives and go "blah, this is not what I want at all!" It's frustrating because we need to acccept two really simple things, before we can successfully change our
current now.
1. Right now is all we have
2. Change can only take place right now
We only exist right now, this day, not tomorrow and not yesterday. As Chopra said
"The past is history, the future is a mystery and the present is a gift" and it's so true.
How often do you spend your day regretting the past or worrying about the future? It's a mind trap for sure, because while you're doing that, the present (the only place you can exist) is busy just being present.
To change your life in any way, you're going to have to be
present in the
present. No more sneaking off and regretting the past and fearing the future. Nope that's for people who don't want control and/or responsibility and I know you're way smarter than that right?
Okay let's get practical.............
You're here right now existing in the moment, in the present, but what do you see there? Crappy job? No love? No money? Whatever it is, it exists in the present because
you are keeping it there by observing it right now. You are maintaining your life, by observing your life, it's a system of creation that creates as it observes.
So you can't get out of loneliness by observing no love, because the present is the sum total of all your thoughts, all your choices. Every observation is a thought and every thought is a choice for how you want the present to be.
You must take responsibility for what is in your present moment, for what is in your life right now. If it's there, you created it, so all you have to really do, is accept that fact and say
"right, I created this and now I'm going to create something else" then decide what that
something else is, observe it as often as you can and it will manifest. Things will start to happen, opportunities will arise, people will aid you, things will change in your favor.
Think about where and when you are existing, are alive and you'll see that all you have is right here and right now, but
the moment is malleable because observation is creation, to observe is to create and the system of creation is always just feeding back into itself, in the moment.
Accept that your observations are creating your present moment and accept that if that's true, then by changing those observations, then the moment will change.
Max