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Originally Posted by moonlite
It's very true that in modern oversexed society sex is even more absent than in more restrictive times.
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I don’t know where you live… but in part of the world sex is very much alive and well thank you… the religious taboos went out the window twenty or thirty years ago… and sex is now seen as an activity which is only regulated by one’s personal values and code of ethics…
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First, we have to answer one question - what sex really is? I should have started with that - from my point of view masturbation is not sex at all, because sex is about connection and through masturbation you cannot connect with anybody. You cannot even connect with yourself because you are splitting yourself during the act and to connect you have to be integrated. Masturbation in itself is very narcissistic and feeds narcissistic delusions (especially about the self-sufficiency).
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I am almost tempted to ask you if you ever had sex… since you certainly seem to be able to expound about it but your conclusions seem to be so far from reality that I truly wonder how you could ever come to such conclusions…
The sexual process is as follows...
arousal… gratification… and orgasm… but how you achieve those three stages is irrelevant…
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For me it's somehow funny because this thread in itself show how far went the decadence of Western culture - an idea to stop masturbating for a while aroused interesting discussion. very symbolic
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Could you explain to me how sex is decadent… ??? I would just love to hear your rationalization…
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