Damn, I know this was posted over a month ago, but what the hell were you thinking? You should have never gotten yourself in that situation if you knew you had feelings for her.
With that said and done, you must get over her. My advice would be to focus on your nephews. Know that she is their mommy and love them. Also know that you can NEVER go there again, even if they separate or divorce. It's just not right for the kids. If she makes advances towards you, let her know quickly that you'll never be interested.
Unfortunately or fortunately, your brother will find out about this. No, I wouldn't tell him because it is really on her to say something since it is her marriage and family. But, women are generally transparent, especially emotionally. She is going to believe that her marriage is broken because of this lie. She will break down this year or years from now, but be prepared. When she does do this, get on your hands and knees and apologize to your brother and let him know that you had feelings for her. Tell him that you should have never put yourself in that situation and that it will never happen again. Good luck to you.  |