Great article thanks for writing it. Do you realize it will help create lots of happy couples?

(and happy children rpobably)
I often hear of some lists people do for their future spouse, like : "I want a tall man, handsome and strong with blue eyes", and they end up being happy with a man bald and short with brown eyes

. So I guess, yes, the most important is character and personality traits. (even if appearance does count a little)