She kept trying to pull me to dark/fear/self, and I wouldn't come. It eventually became easier to let schoolwork interfere with our relationship. So I can hardly argue that differing polarities wouldn't be a problem.
ok so what if you were an ascendend (?) enlightened light worker, would this have made things even more challenging, or how do you think it would have effected the relationship, asuming the enlightened lightworker understands dark needs light and light needs dark, and that it is all full circle for the higher good of man