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toasterwater · 07-29-2007, 04:25 AM

been thinking... I go through all of this mental anguish because i want someone to love me... so really, the root of my problem is me...

I WANT someone to love me.

Can i change that?...

What I really wish i could do is NOT want someone to love me.

I want to be content without anybody's love. If i can do that, then I wont have to feel this depression/anger all the time. I wont have any reason to.

I have no lover, but i want one... therefore I get depressed and angry.

If i have no lover, but i DONT want one... then i will have nothing to be depressed and angry about.

I need to work on this, please help if you have any advice on how i can accomplish this.

This desire for love is a crippling weekness, and i must find a way to eliminate it from my being.

07-29-2007, 04:25 AM	#14 (permalink)
toasterwater Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: San Diego, California Posts: 247	hmmm... been thinking... I go through all of this mental anguish because i want someone to love me... so really, the root of my problem is me... I WANT someone to love me. Can i change that?... What I really wish i could do is NOT want someone to love me. I want to be content without anybody's love. If i can do that, then I wont have to feel this depression/anger all the time. I wont have any reason to. I have no lover, but i want one... therefore I get depressed and angry. If i have no lover, but i DONT want one... then i will have nothing to be depressed and angry about. I need to work on this, please help if you have any advice on how i can accomplish this. This desire for love is a crippling weekness, and i must find a way to eliminate it from my being.