I feel kind of pathetic that I am bumping my own thread, asking for help and advice, but it is true that there's nothing wrong with asking for help, is it not? Plus, it would be a waste to open up a new thread on a topic similar to a one I have recently opened another thread about. And besides, WHEN I meet my girlfriend, I will post about it in this
I went and searched for some success stories about people who found their dream partners and stumbled upon one piece of vital advice that may help others-
LESSON 1 -- YOU MUST TRUST THE UNIVERSE LESSON 2 -- YOU MUST FIND THE LOVE AND HAPPINESS WITHIN YOURSELF!
Lesson 2 was the one that took me aback. At first I was confused and asked myself, "Well, I found my own inner love but how am I going to find my own inner happiness and enjoy my own company?"
Then, the answer I got was an idea that popped in my head, "Do what makes you/me happy."
Here was everything I would perceive in my relationship with my girlfriend:
-- When I meet my girlfriend, I will have the joy and thrill of her and her sister willingly taking me home from school.
-- When I meet my girlfriend, my life will change.
-- When I meet my girlfriend, we will travel (by means of plane, Amtrak train, rail transit eve), and have a great time doing it, and go on a lot of outings.
-- When I meet my girlfriend, we will take annual trips to Six Flags.
-- When I meet my girlfriend, I will prove all the people wrong who said I would never find The One and rub it in all their faces (my mother included).
-- When I meet my girlfriend, I will be overjoyed and deep in love.
-- When I meet my girlfriend, I'm getting out of here... well, not yet. I want to take it slow and stick with the weekend visits during the school year, and then when school is out for the summer, then I will move in with her permanently.
-- When I meet my girlfriend, I will feel more in touch with my feminine side as she appreciates my feminine mannerisms and help me get more in touch with my feminine side.
-- When I meet my girlfriend, I will go out more (I always stay in the house if I'm not in school or wherever else I must be).
-- When I meet my girlfriend, and during out Six Flags trip, I will end my virginity (but I do not want children and I have listed that she does not want children either).
Here's a question about manifestation rituals;
I read in How to Get Everything You Ever Wanted
that you shouldn't blow out a candle, and that it's best to extinguish it by snuffing it instead. What exactly is this? I did try Googling it, but I didn't get reliable results.
Here's my affirmation that I came up with below:
Spirit, and All That Is...
I am so happy and grateful now that I, “Roaring Springs (my real name there)”, attract a woman who is perfect for me, and a blissful relationship of romantic love.
I am all I need to be the perfect loving partner for my Perfect Girlfriend as I am her Perfect Boyfriend. I love myself entirely, unconditionally, and as a whole, right now, at this very present moment. I am content, fulfilled, satisfied, and whole within myself, being single. I am filled with love and I have much love to provide my Perfect Girlfriend with. This relationship with my Perfect Girlfriend is already mine, as her relationship with me is already hers!
I acknowledge and trust that because I have asked Source, Source has heard and acknowledged my prayers for to unite with my Perfect Girlfriend, and I know Spirit is sending a woman who is perfect for me my way. I deeply thank Spirit for this beautiful relationship with my Perfect Girlfriend and for listening to and acknowledging our prayers to unite.
The walls of delay, doubt, and desperation crumble away now, as my Perfect Girlfriend and I unite, easily, effortlessly, beautifully, perfectly, and in a safe, loving way… in accordance with the Divine Will, free will, and in the highest and greatest good of all concerned.
I am open to attracting this wonderful, beautiful woman who is my Perfect Girlfriend. She is all I could ever ask for, or more, and she matches everything on my Perfect Girlfriend list. She is also open to attracting me, her Perfect Boyfriend.
I now release this desire to Spirit, as I give way for this beautiful manifestation, knowing that it is already so. I have an unwavering and undying abundance of infinite faith in Spirit. I trust in Spirit… and All That Is with each and every fiber of my being that I AM manifesting my Perfect Girlfriend now… and that she is manifesting me now. I am at peace, firmly believing and knowing that this is so.
I AM living in the peace, patience, excitement, and comfort knowing that I AM drawing romantic love into my life now. I deeply thank the Source for my freeness and healing of each and every block that would stop me from attracting my Perfect Girlfriend into my life, for her freeness of each and every block that would stop her from attracting me, for all the seen and unseen blessings already and currently bestowed upon me, and for this precious gift of my Perfect Girlfriend, for we are both ready for one another in each and every way possible now, simultaneously.
This is already so… and So it Is… Thank You Very Much, Spirit!