Originally Posted by Rezzy7
Anyway, I think what I meant is that I don't have any idea what "being charisma" is like, or feels like, because I don't remember ever being charismatic. And that is what would cause there to be positive, reinforcing references. So I don't know how one just starts feeling/believing he is that way, without understanding what it means from the inside.
This blog post might be helpful; it's about how to create the experience of something inwardly before experiencing it outwardly: How To Become a Vibrational Match for Your Desire
But I know what you mean about how it's more challenging to imagine something you have no personal memories of experiencing. For example, I find it really difficult to imagine being in a relationship where the other person and I are mutually attracted to one another, because I've only had experience with being attracted to someone who wasn't attracted to me, or vice versa.