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Originally Posted by Mark Lapierre  What common appealing qualities have you noticed in those you choose as your beau or belle at the start of exploring a romantic interest? Why do those qualities appeal to you? |
Common qualities I've noticed:
Tom-boyish, either when they were younger or currently. I'm more into (long distance) hikers because their attitudes have shifted from having themselves perceived in a perfect environment to one where they accept themselves however they are... It's ok to be dirty, to sweat, to smell, not showered in days... The ones I choose can also go girlie on me in an instant... the makeup, the shoes, clothes and I like that they're so versatile.
The ability to come from a deep level within themselves; not hide anything. That takes a lot of courage. If they don't come with this they learn to quickly since I see their stuff anyway. (lol... cuz it's my stuff)
This helps me be me. I like to feel I can share anything in my awareness, and go from there.
Typically there is a creative spark active in them: they make things with their hands, they are good with words or writing, or they are artists. This isn't something I look for, but it always seems to be there.
lol... just thought of this... typically my girl is a Leo or Aries too. I'm not familiar with the attributes of those signs but that is a commonality I see.
They're all beautiful
... and why not?
I always choose thin, athletic, or slightly curvey girls. Why does that appeal to me? No reason.... that's what I like. lol.. They cannot crush me when they are on top of my skinny body
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I like long hair too, lets just say anything past the shoulders fits in that category.
On edit: just reading through other's responses... yeah you gotta have brains and be able to laugh. I think this is a hang-out-with-Dharma rule in general, not just related to women.