Would you be willing to give any of your wealth to the poor and homeless people of this world?
If you answered yes, then you shouldn't have a problem giving your money to relatives.
Giving your money to charity is essentially givign your money to someone you don't even know. Poor people and homeless people are not neccesarily any nicer than your "gold-digger" relatives.
So why give away your money with a judgemental attitude? Your relatives are just as deserving as any homeless person no matter how nasty they have been to you.
There will probably be a time in the future when you will need the help of your family. Invest your time and money into your family in the NOW so that you may reap the benefits. You will enjoy the giving just as much and you will gain something for it as well. |