Originally Posted by ssandra
We've talked it to death these last 6 years
And he is a smart person. He knows all the things that can cause it and he knows how to find information on how to remedy it... it is not my job to hold his hand doing that...
Yes, it's the job of his male buddies to help him on that path
. There is a huge gap between knowing the truth and living that truth. However every time you even discuss this particular topic with him (connection between weight/lifestyle and sex drive), it kills at least part of his sexual desire for you.