[ADULT] About my (sexual and other) relationship with my husband
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07-08-2011, 07:02 AM
Join Date: Jun 2010
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1. It is NONE OF MY BUSINESS why he doesn't want to have sex with me and maybe does (or doesn't) with others.
2. I trust him completely, I know that he would never purposefully would harm me. I trust that if he could choose to have sex with either me or someone else, he would choose me. And I accept that he can want to have sex with someone else and not with me, without making it any of my business.
That last one did cost me a lot of work. Not the trust part, but the "not making it about me" part. But with the trust, and accepting, and taking my responsibility for releasing control... it works
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