Until you clean up the clutter and the mess in your house it will not be a home you will feel comfortable in and subsequently your own personal energy will feel cluttered and messy to, I'm sure this is already how you feel now.
There is an answer within this problem but since your environment is so messy it is hard for you to see the best route for you to take. Perhaps you could
step away from your problems to gain perspective and try to see the solution from another angle.
John
Attracting People.com