my standard response to any relatives like that is that I think we already have plans.
Short term solution might be to ring you bf and tell him you already have plans and he'll need to tell his sister and mum that you guys are busy and won't be available, go out for a meal.
Long term you and your bf are going to have to deal with the issue, there is no easy solution. I'm sure there will be plenty of advice but in the end, you guys are going to have to make the decision.
My inlaws and my parents have learned what they can say, if they cross the line they get a chuckle and are light heartedly told to sod off. But that's me and as Steve says with his decision making article, is it you? |