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Originally Posted by JimOfferman  I am too easily tempted to try and force a positive outlook on someone, rather than leading by example and allowing them to find the light on their own. |
I agree. Part of being a loving person (maybe the hardest part!) is creating a space of freedom for others to be exactly who they are and trusting them to choose their own path. It's so difficult when they're choosing a path that l think will lead them to pain or blockage! But it's not the "wrong" path. It's just
their path. If I try to interfere or control another person's choices, it will only lead to pain and blockage for
me. If I love them, I must trust them to make their own choices.
But continue to pay attention to why and where it's so important to you to make a 'proactive' difference in the lives of others. You know that whatever it is that's bothering you about what another person is doing is really a part of
you jumping up and down, shouting "look at me!"
I think you do the right thing when you simply shine your radiant beacon of light. Make the best choices for yourself, let him know what you think (when he asks!), let go of what you don't need, and allow the generous light that results from that to warm others.
That's me, protecting my eyes from the brilliance that is you.