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Thanks, Jim. I guess that's right. I like to be proactive. I hate to see a friend going through a tough time and have no ability to do anything.

Originally Posted by JimOfferman

you can tell your friend that he - and he alone - has the power to change his life for the better

I have acutally said exactly that to him. I am probably annoying because I've actually said it multiple times.

I will certainly try to keep a positive attitude for myself and hope it will have some ripple effect. Still, if anyone has any other advice, I would be willing to give that a try too.

Thanks again.