I tend to go for unusual types that take time to get to know. Get a bored easily with the normal hum drum sort of muggle. They must have a positive outlook and be strong minded enough to stand a good debate but flexible enough to explore new thinking. The physical part is more difficult because I don't have a favourite body type, look or age. Passionate in the bedroom is a must. Compassionate towards others. Willing to venture into other areas of mind.
The important people in my life have always lit up or glowed, even across a crowed room. When I rewind the visual memories, significant people have been spot lighted and I can remember where they were, who they spoke to and what they did even though at the time I might have been preoccupied and unaware of them. This discovery was made several years ago in hindsight. Now I can rewind recent memories now and spot people who I know will enter my life. I guess I just trust that I'll meet the right people at the right time in the same way that I've know when relationships have reached their 'use by' date. I've parted with my significant exes on good terms and remain friends with them.
Lallymac
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