Hi Tripp444,
Please know that only you are the one that eventually makes the decision about maintaining or breaking this or any other relationship. Unless the other person involved beats you to it of course. There will be many people with many stories. About half of them have stories that end happily, whether or not the relationship is broken and the other half, you guessed it, end in pain. Again, whether or not the relationship is broken. You may learn something from these stories, but you still have to deal with YOUR situation, which is unique. Why? Because you are only involved in your own story and not in anyone else's.
A counselor will help you think about your situation. He or she might point you to something you haven't seen or thought about. Maybe you have already decided but don't know how to deal with it. When I hear your story, it sounds like there's a lot to talk about. Did you speak about this with friends? Do you want to? |