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Originally Posted by Mark Lapierre  What common appealing qualities have you noticed in those you choose as your beau or belle at the start of exploring a romantic interest? |
First and foremost... that person has to seem to be unattainable... I don't want what I can get... I want what I cannot get... The more I pursue a goal... the harder I have to work for it... the more I will appreciate it... same for the object of a romantic quest...
Now, that does not mean that I would be attracted to someone that I could not get because she is already attached to someone else... but to someone whose physical and intellectual qualities are such that she most likely could "get" someone who is way better than I...
The sweetest victories... the most loved and prized possessions are the ones who were most difficult and arduous to attain... and that goes for wars, trophies, possessions, achievements and love...
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