 Goal setting is not efficient -
I read with interest the comments that Xin has raised.
It brings me to a question that I have been wondering about for some time. Is it possible to "relax into" achieving a goal? I suspect that one of the greatest obstacles I have to overcome is to prevent myself from reaching for a goal without stressing myself. It seems that if I work too hard or concentrate on it too much I tie myself up with stress and achieve very little or nothing in spite of my efforts. On one hand, it takes hard work to reach a goal. But still, I have to admit that there may be something to what Xin has to say.
By "relaxing into" I mean to strive to achieve a goal in a relaxed manner. How can one do this without getting off track? |