TheIronStar!
If you want some inspiration on "eating your cake and having it too" I suggest that you buy a copy of the 1987 film, "
Wall Street" starring Michael Douglas as Gordon Gekko...
Very inspirational film about a happy, successful and all around guy... though, it might not be a testimonial for ethics and morals... but, hey, no one is perfect...
I have viewed that film over twenty times... and I still get a charge and a boost out of it...
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