XeutonMojukai!
All is fair in love and war...
So my advice to you is to tell her that she's just too good for you... that you feel stifled in front of her... and that you can't bear to hold her back any more... that she has a great future... and that she can do way better than you...
Man, you'll come out smelling like a rose and free as a bird...
Good luck to you...
PS... If lying bothers you... just remember that ol' George Bush does it all the time...
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