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xuan · 07-21-2007, 07:58 PM

I am in a dileman of loving this guy. I met him few months back, he is an amazing person. 1st we thought its gonna be just a fling, but it turns out to be more than that. I am so emotionally attached to him, it brings me misery at times.
He intro me to David Deida's work. This is why i am so caught up.

I think he is with me due to material luxury. Most of the time, when we are out, he seldom pay the bills. I wanted to end this many times, but david said open & love a person even he is a jerk.
Now that i found out that he shares his heart with many other woman. Making them fall for him, without telling the truth. I demand his honesty & he did, without full details. Is this what upset me, i am already to accept the facts that we are not commited as BGR. Why can't he open up?
He can be with other woman & text me at the same time, I LOVE YOU. Deep in my heart, i know its a lie. When he intro me as a gf, i felt uneasy. coz another lie.

I tried not to reply his email, but in david's work that is closing. So i open up, yet i felt e'rything btw me & him seems like an act!

What should i do? We are going to attend david's workshop as partners? How? a guy that never do what he preach, not trustworthy.

How can i help him to see the pictures, before ending e'rything with him?

Pls help.

07-21-2007, 07:58 PM	#1 (permalink)
xuan Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 8	Advice... I am in a dileman of loving this guy. I met him few months back, he is an amazing person. 1st we thought its gonna be just a fling, but it turns out to be more than that. I am so emotionally attached to him, it brings me misery at times. He intro me to David Deida's work. This is why i am so caught up. I think he is with me due to material luxury. Most of the time, when we are out, he seldom pay the bills. I wanted to end this many times, but david said open & love a person even he is a jerk. Now that i found out that he shares his heart with many other woman. Making them fall for him, without telling the truth. I demand his honesty & he did, without full details. Is this what upset me, i am already to accept the facts that we are not commited as BGR. Why can't he open up? He can be with other woman & text me at the same time, I LOVE YOU. Deep in my heart, i know its a lie. When he intro me as a gf, i felt uneasy. coz another lie. I tried not to reply his email, but in david's work that is closing. So i open up, yet i felt e'rything btw me & him seems like an act! What should i do? We are going to attend david's workshop as partners? How? a guy that never do what he preach, not trustworthy. How can i help him to see the pictures, before ending e'rything with him? Pls help.