Originally Posted by garentee
patience. seems simple but patience usually means staring fear down and knowing that you will not go without....to gain patience you need to be patient// that is what I have learned and I hope patience comes your way....G
Very true. Thanks.
Originally Posted by C33
This is very positive Danas! It looks like you're already attracting a lot of love in the form of the kindness of strangers ( cute guy on the plane ).
You seem to be able to start up magical conversations/encounters.
One day that conversation will last longer than one month..
Originally Posted by C33
It would probably help if you could already envision the child, and all the possibilities of love attached to having a child, instead of "acquiring" a father. In a way, find the father that goes with the baby, not the baby that goes with the father.
In "working" in manifesting a child, you are also, concurrently working on manifesting the father of that child.
I like this. Quite a few of my friends are having fatherless babies now, or babies with men who they arent in love with but both share the desire for a baby. For me this is not an option. Ive had enough men wanting to have babies with me. But I didnt love them enough. So I cant do that even if I wanted to. For me the relationship comes first. But when I finally do meet a man I see myself spending my life with, it hurts when it doesnt work out...
But yes, Ill start envisioning a baby.
Originally Posted by The Cloud
If you're not enjoying the love you have in the now, there's no way you can expect to enjoy it in the nows to come. If you're not enjoying your love, it's not going to conspire to make you happy. I think your preoccupation with the "long term monogamous" part of your goal is interfering with the "loving" part of it, and in my experience interference of that sort results in failure and disappointment.
I think of that failure as a gift, myself, because it always reminds me that "loving" is the only necessary adjective to a relationship. Getting what you want wouldn't change that you're more concerned with the future than you are with your present experience, which would add a sour note to even the most perfect relationship.
Im not so sure this is accurate. i love all the way. love doesnt stop. I keep thinking that I love this man, and I would do anything for him regardless if he is with me or not. Simply bc I love his soul. The problem is desiring something other than what is.
Although the pain still comes in waves, today I realized that its all perfect the way it is. I actually see how the loss is his. but I let go of desiring the man who isnt with me. I just realized that its such a useless, negative desire to have. It puts me in a place of constant lack.