Originally Posted by ginkgo
Maybe you should use love to help others. Mobedience.
Maybe you should re-think your strategy in life since it is not working!
Im totally with you that much fulfillment comes from spreading love. I do not think thats my problem though. I spread a lot of love around and I get a ton of love back. In general I feel very loved. i give and what I give I get 10 time more back.
Still, I would like to experience a relationship with a man in a fairly conservative manner. i.e monogamous.
I do not think I need to become Mother Teresa for that to happen though.
Originally Posted by brendannz
Maybe do nothing for now, and just do something when you're ready to, when you know the time's right..
Its funny, today I feel like I already know what to do. Flow. keep going. date. enjoy. next!
A lot thanks to this thread, and my session with Angela today.
Originally Posted by The Cloud
If love isn't your primary consideration, then maybe that's where your problems are coming from. Love doesn't exist a week from now or a year from now; it's an experience, which can only be had when all experiences are had; in the present. The future is the time when expectations and requirements exist, which have nothing to do with love.
Loving long term monogamous relationship. That is my goal. When it lasts only a month. again and again, against my will, I need to look deeper and see why that is.