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Originally Posted by ginkgo  Maybe you should use love to help others. Mobedience.
Maybe you should re-think your strategy in life since it is not working! |
Im totally with you that much fulfillment comes from spreading love. I do not think thats my problem though. I spread a lot of love around and I get a ton of love back. In general I feel very loved. i give and what I give I get 10 time more back.
Still, I would like to experience a relationship with a man in a fairly conservative manner. i.e monogamous.
I do not think I need to become Mother Teresa for that to happen though.
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Originally Posted by brendannz Maybe do nothing for now, and just do something when you're ready to, when you know the time's right.. |
Its funny, today I feel like I already know what to do. Flow. keep going. date. enjoy. next!
A lot thanks to this thread, and my session with Angela today.
Thanks.
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Originally Posted by The Cloud
If love isn't your primary consideration, then maybe that's where your problems are coming from. Love doesn't exist a week from now or a year from now; it's an experience, which can only be had when all experiences are had; in the present. The future is the time when expectations and requirements exist, which have nothing to do with love.
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Loving long term monogamous relationship. That is my goal. When it lasts only a month. again and again, against my will, I need to look deeper and see why that is.