Originally Posted by ssandra
As long as you believe that love=pain, and you manifest love, you'll manifest pain.
I'd suggest changing your beliefs on the subject. In the past, the things you learned from relationships caused some discomfort. Which only made you stronger.
now you are ready for a relationship that is successful, and without this type of pain. (all relationships have difficult moments. That's what happens when 2 people live close by for longer periods of time. It's normal).
Look around you for successful relationship. Find proof everywhere how much it is possible.
Write down, in positive words, what a successful relationship is for you.
Thanks you ssandra
Its interesting. I was thinking the other day how ALL the relationships around me are successful. More or less. parents, siblings, grandparents and all of my close friends who arent single, are in very happy relationships. So plenty of examples around.
I write everyday, about the relationship I want. I think I need to get deeper in my descriptions.