Originally Posted by danas
Maybe because like I wrote, Love seems to equal pain- so why would I want to create that? But I do anyway.
As long as you believe that love=pain, and you manifest love, you'll manifest pain.
I'd suggest changing your beliefs on the subject. In the past, the things you learned from relationships caused some discomfort. Which only made you stronger.
now you are ready for a relationship that is successful, and without this type of pain. (all relationships have difficult moments. That's what happens when 2 people live close by for longer periods of time. It's normal).
Look around you for successful relationship. Find proof everywhere how much it is possible.
Write down, in positive words, what a successful relationship is for you.