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Old 11-13-2006, 03:42 AM   #21 (permalink)
Alvin
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So don't worry that by not doing anything concrete (like giving advices) is inadequate. Sometimes your presence is more than enough. That's the power of love! Sweet?
I think you've hit the nail right on the head, Kloudiia!

Guys like to feel competent, that's what drives them to give advice and want to do things to help their girl, because if they can't then it makes them feel helpless, helpless = unworthy of love = unloved.

I know this was a major mindbender for me when I got into my first relationship!

And yes, your advice is very sweet indeed

@Lotus, hey that's great advice!
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