Don't decide what is good and bad based on other peoples conceptions of anything. You can consider their points and arguements, but...
Decide for yourself, as long as it isn't seriously interfering with anyone else (i.e. your parents).
Do what YOU want, not what THEY want. Obviously your parents have a say in what you're going to do, but really, your friends do not. If friends judge you for your decision- well, perhaps it'd be best to find some more accepting friends if that's what you need.
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