[Old Soul]

I think it is about degree's...

some of your post in my opinion is touching on extremes (ism)
and red flags are flying , we al have personal bounderies, and when those bounderies are ignored, not heard, attacked repeatedly then you are in a position where you do need to take action

when you are dealing with people who are of the extreme end of the spectrum
your life is effected greatly, and action must be taken to ensure personal safety,

we live in a world where there are emotional vampires, there are people with no conscience "sociopaths" who experience no remorse or guilt, there are different types of sociopaths , high functioning ie) Ted Bundy extremely charming, very social , there is healthy selfishness and then there is the extreme, "narsasim"

there are different types of abusers.......

different types of depression, some are just depressed some are depressed with other* things going on.......... there fore we might be in the extremes again


not all people who are insecure "are dangerous", but some deffently are* so again it is about degrees,


I have a different deffenition of how I see or understand the term - "low status" /and or what "danger" to my personal bounderies mean